Unknown Ladki Se Friendship Kaise Kare

Kya aap ke sath kabhi aisa hua hai ki kisi ladki ko apne pehle baar dekha aur dekhte hi reh gaye ho aur aap chahte ho ki wo aapki friend ban jaye but wo aapke liye completely unknown hai toh aisa hoga kaise. Toh ab aap jaanna chahte ho ki Unknown Ladki Se Friendship Kaise Kare. Ab agar aap chahte hai ki wo ladki jis par aapki najar hai wo aapki friend ban jaye. To sabse pahle aapko khud ko introduce karna sikhna hoga, ladki ko uske bare me acha feel karwana aana chaiye, or aapko ek lambe time tak or meaningful(mahatvapuran) friendship bnani ani chaiye. Aur agar aapne sab kuch sahi tarah se kiya hai, to wo aapke liye ek sabse acha dost sabit hogi jaise pahle kabhi koi nahi hua. Isliye hum aapke liye laye hai ki kisi Unknown Ladki Se Doti Kaise Kare? bs follow kare niche diye gaye steps or jaane Unknown Ladki Ko Kaise Dost Banaya Ja Sakta Hai.

Unknown Ladki Se Dosti Kaise Ki Jaye

Unknown Ladki Se Dosti Kaise Ki Jaye

Waise toh yha ek known ladki ko bhi dost banana mushkil ho jata hai uske nakhre dekh ke toh phir unknown ladki ke liye toh aapko bahut mehnat karne padegi. But koi baat nahi hum hai na aapki help ke liye, to aaj hum aapko btayenge ki ek unknown ladki ko apna dost kaise bnaya jaye. Or aisa karne ke liye aapko kya-kya karna hoga or kya nahi karna chahiye, or ye sari baatein humne niche pure dhang se btayi hai taki aapko in baaton ko samajhne me koi bhi mushkil na ho. Ab bas aap niche diye gaye steps ko follow kare or apni problem ko solve kare.

Uske Bare Me Pahle se hi Kuch Cheeze Jaan Le

Agar aap uske barre mein khud se kuch janna chahte ho bina kisi friend ki help se toh iska sabse acha idea hai facebook profile jo aapko uski sari likes aur dislikes batayega aur iski help se toh aapko uske kuch personal details bhi mil sakti hai, jaise unki friends, likes dislikes, interest, usko kaisi cheeze pasand hai, etc. Aur ye sab kuch use baat karne ka acha start up ho sakta hai. Iske ilawa aapko unke bare mein kuch common friends se pata chal jayega but unse bhi puchne se pehle ye sab indirect way mei puchna taki unhe kuch galat na lage aur ho sakta aisa karna ladki ko acha bhi na lage.

Khud Ko Introduce Kare 

Aapki sabse pahli move ye honi chaiye, ki aap sab kuch hissab se kare. Jisse aapki friendship kaam kare or fir us ladki ko khud ko introduce karo. Aapko jyada aggressive hone ki bilkul jarurat nahi hai, bas us ladki ko aise jtaye jaise ki aap uske dost banne ke liye mare ja rahe hai. Sabse pahle to usko Hi bole, uske baad use aapna naam btaye, fir usse puche ki wo kaisi hai. Bas dhyaan rakhe ki aap use ache time me mile ho, jab wo bilkul busy na ho ya kisi baat par pareshan na ho, bas in sab baat ka dhyaan rakhe jisse aap uske sath normally act kar sake. For example

  • Kuch aise bole jaise ki  “Hi, I’m Sandy. It’s great to meet you. What’s your name?” And take it from there.
  • Usse jyada sawal na puche , or usko abhi apne bare me btaye. Bas dhyaan rakhe ki kahi wo nervous na ho jaye. Isse bilkul easy way me le, or apni friendship ko time de khulne ke liye.
  • Hamesha dhyaan rakhe ki jab bhi aap usse baat karne ja rahe hai, tab wo akeli ho. Agar wo bahut se logo ke sath hai or aap usse milne jate hai to aap jitni bhi achi tarah baat karle, aap us par acha impression nahi daal payenge.

Usse Uske bare Me Puche

Ek baar jab aap usse baat karne lag jate hai. Uske baad usse uske bare me puche, jisse ki aap use or bhi achi tarah se jaan sake. Sachai ye hai ki jab aap kisi se dosti karna chahte ho, tab aapko interested hone se jyada interesting hona padhta hai. Bas dhyaan rakhe ki wo bhi aapse wappis kuch sawal puche or jisse usko aisa na lage ki wo aapse aapke bareh me hi puch tach kar rahi hai. Ye kuch baatein hai jo ki aap usse uske  bare me puch sakte ho.

  • Uski hobbies
  • Uski family
  • Uski favorite TV shows, actors, musicians, and movies
  • Uski summer holidays
  • Uske pets ke bare me

Bas ek cheez ka dhyan rakhna na bhule ki pehle ek do baar milne se use personal battein na puche ho sakta use acha na lage bas apni conversation interesting or two sided rakhna ye na ho ki ek bol rha ho aur doosra sun raha ho aisa kuch acha nahi lagega.

Thoda khulle Or Use Compliment de

Jab aap or ladki ek dusre se khul ke baat karne lag gaye hai. Uske baad use apne bare me btaye, jisse ye pata chalega ki aap dono hi ek dusre ko janne lag gaye ho. Aapko use sab kuch ek hi bari me nahi btana hai, lekin jab aap uske sath comfortable feel karne lag jate ho. Tab aap use bata sakte ho ki aap kin cheezo ki care karte ho ageh ke liye kya sochte ho. Aapko  thoda or positive hona hoga, jab aap usse pahli baar baat kar rahe ho. Jisse ki wo aapke sath ghumne jana pasand kare. Agar aap ek ladki ko nice girl wale compliment dete ho to ye aapko uske friends banne me help karta hai. Koi bhi cheez jo ki uske liye important ho aap us cheez par use compliment de sakte hai. Jisse ki use acha mehsus ho. Agar aap kisi ko achi tarah se jante bhi nahi hai, or aap use ek acha compliment dete hai to ye aapko usse baat shuru karne me help jarur karta hai.

Uske Sath Check-in Dale, Lekin Use Sara Time apne sath Ghumne Ko Majbur Na Kare

Jab aap kisi ko janne or samajne lagte hai, to wo aapki regular life se judne lagte hai. Agar aap us ladki ke sath apni friendship ka relation or gehra karna chahte hai to aap time to time check in karna hoga ki uska din kaisa gya ya uske kisi mushkil test se pahle use best of luck wish kare. Jab aap apni new friend ko janne lag gaye hai, to aapko uske sath time spend karne ki terms ko slow karna hoga. Usko bas ek week me 1 ya 2 baar mile jisse ki aapki dosti bani rahe. Kyunki agar aap use roj miloge to aap usko roj apne sath ghumne ko bolege. Jisse ki wo aapse pareshan ho kar baat karna band karde ya milna band karde.

Uske Baki Friends Se Jealous na Ho

Agar aap ek strong friendship bnana chahte hai apne dono ke bich me to aapko apne hone wali BFF ke dosto ko bhi janna hoga. Aap jarur chahenge ki aapki friend sirf aapke sath rahe, lekin agar aap uske baaki friends ka majak udati ho ya unke sath ghumne ke liye mna karti ho. Toh wo isse restricted feel kar sakti hai aur ho sakta hai isse aap dono ke beech misunderstanding ho jaye. Kyunki wo uske aapse pehle ke ache friends ho sakte hai toh bas uspe trust rakhein aur use apne friends ke sath jane se mana na karna aur jealous bhi mat feel karna if possible aap bhi unke ath mix ho aur unke group mein time spend karna.

Ek Dusre Ki Help Kare or Uske Family or Friends Se Jaan Pechan Bnaye

Ye ek alag rasta hai, apni friendship ko or behtar bnane ka jisme aap ek dusre ki help kar sakte hai, or jab aapko extra support ki jarurat hogi tab wo aapke sath hogi ya aap uske. Jaise ki jab wo bahut busy hai, to aap uska college ka kaam karke uski help kar sakte ho, ya kahi raste me uska vehicle kharab ho gya hai to us time usko lene ja sakte ho ya mechanic ko le kar ja sakte ho. Aap ek dusre ko call kar sakte ho jab aapko emotional support ki jarurat hai. Asli dost hi mushkil time me sath dete hai, or isi se unki dosti or bhi pakki ho jati hai.

Ab agar aap sach me bahut close ho gaye hai, to ab aapko thode efforts se gujjarna hoga jisse ki aap uski dusri life ke pehlu se bhi jud sake. Agar aap uske ghar jate hai, ya uske ghar me hai to aapko uske parents se baat karni chaiye, jisse unhe pata chalega ki aap ek ache insaan hai. Koshish kare ki aap uske sibling se nice rahe, khas kar tab jab wo aapse chotte ho umar me. Agar uske kuch friends uske sath hamesha rehte hai, to aapko bhi unhe janna chaiye, or uneh aise treat kare jaise ki wo aapke bhi friends ho. But unki family ke sath itna mix up sirf tab ho jab girl ko aur uski family ko objection na ho.

Usko Uske Bare Me Acha Feel Karwaye or New Cheeze Sath me Kare 

Ek dost hone me sabse jaruri or khass baat ye hai, ki aapko apni friend ko aisa feel karwana hoga, jaise ki wo bahut amazing hai, interesting hai. Or ek bahut beautiful ladki bhi hai, jo ki janne ke layak hai. Use sincere compliments de. Usko encourage(himmat badhana) kare, jab uski life ka koi bada ahem moment aa rha ho. Usko btaye ki uske jo bhi cheez kari hai wo bahut hi awesome or unique hai. Agar uska din bura jata hai to aap use ek note likh kar bhi bata sakte hai, ki wo ki kitni awesome or amazing hai. Koi bhi ek cheez jo ki aapko or aapki friends ko achi lagi usko sath me jarur kare. Jaise ki, kahi bahr ghumne jana, like road trip ya dancing classes join karna etc. Koi bhi aisi cheez jo aap dono ko exicting lagti ho, use sath me jarur kare. Isse aapki dosti or bhi pakki ho jayegi or aap ek dusre ko or bhi achi trah se samajne lag jaoge.

Hamesha Ek Dusre Ke Bureh Dino me Sath De or Ek Dusre Ko Apni Apni Space de

True friends bas tabhi sath me nahi ghumte jab unka mood bahut acha hota hai. Wo hamesha sath hote hai, fir chahe wo khushi ke pal ho ya gum ke. Agar aapki friend ka din acha nahi gya, to aapko uske support ke liye uske sath hona chaiye, uski problem ko sunne ke liye, or usko apni advice de agar wo aapse mange to. Ya aapko lage ki koi baat aapko pata hai or aapko is matter use apni advice deni chaiye. Agar aap  uske bureh time me uska sath dete hai, to isse aapka relation or bhi pakka or majbud  ho jayega. Ye jaruri nahi hai agar aap dono ek ek second sath me bitate hai, tabhi aap dost rahenge. Aap or aapki friend me itni understanding honi chaiye jisse ki aap dono apne baki friends ke liye, apni studies, family or apne baki ke interests ke liye bhi time nikal sake. Aapko har chotti se chotti cheez sath me karne ki jarurat nahi hai, ye soch kar ki aap friends hai. In fact aapka relation or bhi interested ho jayega, agar aap apna kahi or bitaya time or experience apne friend ke sath share karoge.

To friends, ye hai unknown ladki se dosti kaise ki jaye ke kuch lajawab tips. Main umeed karta hu ki aap in baaton ko ache se padh kar follow karenge to aapko kabhi is topic me koi problem nahi ayegi. Agar fir bhi aapke mann me isse related koi sawal hai ya aapki koi or problem hai, to aap niche diye gaye comment box par ja kar comment karke humse apni problems and suggestions share kar sakte hai. Hume aapki help karne me khushi hogi. So best of luck guys 🙂


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