First Time Ladki Se Milne Jaane Par Kya-Kya Kare

Generally hota yeh hai ki hume agar kisi pe crush ho toh use dekhte hi hamari heartbeat fast ho jati hai aur dusri cheez hum kuch aisi cheeeze karne lagte hai jo dekhne mein kafi awkard lagti hai. Aur jab aisi baat aa jaye ki aapne crush se friendship karli ho aur aap use milne ja rahe ho toh aapko sabse pehle yahi samjh nahi aata ki aap use milne jaa rahe ho toh aapko kya karna chahiye. Toh aap generally ya toh friends se puchte ho ya phir aapka favorite google. Toh ab aapki is problem ko hum solve karenge ki, First Time Ladki Se Milne Jaane Par Kya-Kya Kare.

Agar aap har cheez ko bharosa ke sath karoge, to jis ladki se aap pahli baar milne ja rahe ho, fir aapko use impress karne ki jarurat hi nahi hai. Balki aapka khud par confidence(bharosa) dekh kar wo aap se bina kuch kiye hi bahut impress ho jayegi. Bas hamesha yaad rakhe ki har cheez ki ek limit hoti hai. Or isiliye hi har cheez ko limit me karne se aapka khud ka fayeda hai. Agar aap kabhi bhi kisi ladki ke samne koi bhi cheez ko limit se bahar ja kar karte ho, to iska matlab hai ki aap ne us cheez me hadd hi par kar di hai. Or isi wajah se wo ladki aapke bare me galat sochne ko majbur ho jayegi or shayad isi ki wjah se aapka abhi tak us ladki par dala hua acha impression bhi kharab ho sakta hai. Fir chahe aap ne aisa kuch sirf ek hi baar kiya ho. Jaise ki over confience, over jokes, over talking and etc. Isliye aaj hum aapko btayenge ki ladki se pahli baar milne jaye to kya karna chaiye, jis se ki aap khud ko sharminda na kar sake or ladki ko bhi apni taraf attract(akarshit) kar sake.

Ladki Ko Pahli Baar Milne Jaye To Kya Karna chaiye

Toh aaj hamare friends apne crush ko first time milne jaa rahe hai aur wo bahut tension mein bhi hai. Aap tension na lo dosto, aaj main aapko bataongi ki ladki se pahli baar milne par kya karna chaiye. Jis se ki ladki aap se impress ho jaye ya wo aapke sath khud hi relation me ana chahe. Iske liye aapko bas niche diye gaye steps ko ache se padh kar follow karna hoga. Jis se ki ladki aap se dubara milne ko betaab ho jaye. To chaliye shuru karte hai.

Ladki Ko Pahli Baar Milne Jaye To Kya Karna chaiye

Confident Dikhe Or Feel Kare

Agar aap shy(sharmile) type ke hai, to ye aapke liye us ladki se baat karne ko or bhi aasan bana deta hai. Bas use apne ek ache dost ki tarah treat kare, or har cheez ko confidence ke sath kare. Apne andar ki nervousness wali feeling kabhi ladki ko show na hone do, agar use pata chal gaya ki aap nervous ho toh wo aur bhi nervous ho jayegi aur aap dono comfortable feel nahi karegi baat karne mein. Aap ne kahi baar dekha hoga ki koi kitna bhi smart ladka hi kyun na ho, ladki ke samne jate hi uski bhi bolti band ho jati hai, ya haklana shuru kar dete hai. Isliye is baat ka dhyaan rakhe ki har wo baat jo bhi aap usse karne wale hai, use ek baar karne se pahle apne mann me soch kar, ache se bol kar practice kar le. Taki jab bhi wo ladki aapke samne aye to tab aap kabhi bhi usse baat karte time hich-kichaoge nahi or saaf-saaf aksaro me apni baat uske samne rakh paoge. Isse ladki bhi aapka confidence dekh kar or aapke baat karne ke style ko dekh kar, aap se impress bhi ho sakti hai. Or aap use first time comfortably mil sakte ho.

Har Cheez Aaram se Kare

Us ladki ko kabhi bhi apni personality desperate wali mat dikhana. Jitna ho sake usse aaram se mile or baat bhi aaram se hi kare, taki us ladki ko aap se baat karte time darr na lage ya kisi trah ki koi pareshani na ho. Agar aapka koi ek aisa friend hai jo us ladki ko bhi janta hai, to use bole ki wo aapko usse intoduce karwaye. Is trah se aap dono ki mulakat ordinary nahi rahegi, balki friendly ban jayegi. Agar fir bhi aap us ladki se baat karne me uncomfortable feel kar rahe ho, to jab bhi aap us ladki se kahi bahar milne jao to tab apne usi common friend ko apne sath me le jao. Jo ki aapki taraf se bich bich me us ladki se baat kar lega, jaise ki agar aap kabhi us ladki ke puche hue kisi sawal par atak jate ho to tab aapka wohi common friend hi aapko us time us mushkil se bahar nikal sakta hai. Iske ilawa bhi wo aapki kahi or cheezo me help kar sakta hai. Jaise ki us ladki se baat karte time jab kabhi aap hich-kichane lago ya or kuch bhi jisme aapke friend ko khud lage ki aapko uski jarurat hai, to wo aapki help jarur karega. Wesse bhi agar aapka koi common friend aapke sath hoga us ladki se milne ke time par to tab aapke nervous hone ke chances bhi kum ho jate hai.

Introduce Yourself

Aaj ke time me kisi ladki ko apna naam btana ya yu kha jaye ki kisi ladki ko apna introduction dena ye koi mushkil kaam to nahi hai kisi bhi ladke ke liye. Magar fir bhi kuch ladke is cheez me bhi piche reh jate hai, ye soch kar ki main kahi khud ko us ladki  ke samne sharminda na karlu. Ye sab unke low confidence level ki wajah se hota hai, aur phir wo ladk samne jake kuch bol nahi pate. Hamesha yaad rakhe ki ladkiya bhi aap hi ki trah ek aam insaan hi hoti hai. Isliye aapke pass koi bhi normal ya valid reason nahi hai nervous hone ka. Or aap use khud ka introduction kuch is trah se bhi de sakte ho, sabse pahle to use apna naam btaye kuch is trah se “Hi I’m Sandeep or usi ke sath hi apna hath ageh bdaye ladki se hath milane ke liye. Or ye cheeze bade hi aaram se kare, fir usse uska naam puche. Uske baad uska naam sunne tak ka intezaar kijiye or fir uske baad us ladki ka naam jaisa marji ho, lekin aapko uske naam ki tarrif hi karni hogi. Kuch is trah bole ki wow what a beautiful name, aapki personality ko completely suit karta hai. Uske baad usse uska haal-chal puche. Fir agar aapke sath aapka koi friend bhi aya hua hai, to use bhi us ladki se introduce karwaye.

Compliment De

Hamesha yaad rakhe ki wo ek ladki hai, or ladkiyo ko apni tarrif sunna bahut pasand hota hai. Yha tak ki ladko ko bhi apni tarrif sunna pasand hota hai. Isliye us ladki ko bade hi dhyaan se dekhe, sirf dekhna matlab notice karna but kabhi stare mat karna ye aapka negative impression dega. Fir aapko usme jo bhi cheez ya koi baat pasand ati hai to us baat ya cheez par use acha or sacha compliment de. Isse aapke riste ki achi shuruwat hogi. Kahi aisa na ho ki aap puri mulakat me use bas compliment hi dete rahe. Ye soch kar ki aisa karne se wo aap se jaldi impress ho jayegi ya wo aapko pasand karna shuru kar degi. Lekin aisa bilkul nahi hoga to aisa na hi kare to aapke liye acha hoga. Kyunki agar ladki ko pata chal gya ki aap unhe jhuta compliment de rahe hai. To isse aapka us par abhi tak ka dala hua sara acha impression kharab ho sakta hai, or aap uski najro me bhi gir sakte ho. Or wo aapko ek jhuta insaan samaj kar fir aap par kabhi bharosa nahi karegi,. Ya shayad wo aapko dubara kabhi na mile.

Baat-Chit Ko Chalne De

Aapki us ladki se pahli mulakat me baat-chit ka chalte rhena ye thoda mushkil ho sakta hai. Agar aap sare compliments pahle se hi de chuke hai, to ab baat-chit ko jari rakhne ke liye aapko usse uske bare me sawal puchne hoge. Jaise ki usse uski hobbies, siblings, pet or etc ke bare me puche or use bhi apne bare me btaye. Yaad rakhe ki ladkiyo ko unhe hasane wale ladke bahut pasand hote hai. Isiliye bich bich me thode ache jokes karke ladki ko hasate bhi rahe, taki aapki pahli mulakat boring na ho. But pehli baar mein kabhi uspe jokes crack na karna.Or ise bhi ek limit se kare. Or aapki yehi image uske dimag me reh jayegi. Isliye in sabi baaton ka dhyaan jarur rakhe. Isi ke sath aap baat-chit ko jari rakhne ke liye ladki ki pehni hui cheezo ke bare me puche. Jaise ki usse puche ki kya aapka ye necklace gold ka hai? Such me? Ye bahut sundar hai or aap par bahut acha bhi lag rha hai. Agar aap baat-chit karne ke liye ready feel nahi kar rahe hai, to aap ise ignore(chod) karke agle step par bhi ja sakte hai.

Uske Touch Me Rhene Ka Koi Rasta Dhunde

Agar aap dono ke pass cell phones hai, to ladki se number exchange karne ke liye puche. Ya aap aisa bhi kar sakte hai ki khud ka phone number pahle use dede or fir uske number dene tak ka intezaar kare. Aap usse uski Facebook, Twitter, MSN, Google+, etc ki ID ke liye bhi puch sakte ho. Jo aaj-kal bahut common bhi ho gaya hai. Or jiski madad se aap usse baatein ya kaha jaye ki chatting  kar sakte ho, usko or bhi ache or gehrayi se jaan sakte ho. Ya uske sath kahi bahar jane ka ya ghumne firne ka plan bana sakte ho or bahut si baatein hai jo aap in social networking sites ki madad se kar sakte ho. Fir isse koi farak nahi padhta ki wo konsi app(application) ya site hai. Bas Koi bhi aisi social networking site ho jiska use(istemaal) aap dono hi karte ho. Or jab aap use is baat ke liye puchoge, to ye baat use aise show honi chaiye, jaise ki aap usse touch me rhene ke liye bahut interested ho. Wesse jo ki aap asal me ho hi.

Baat-chit ko Ek Casual Excuse Ke Sath Khatam Kare

Is cheez me kisi bhi trah ki koi jald-bazi me na kare. Jaise ki aapke pass kuch acha na ho karne ko ya bolne ko, to kabhi bhi ek kone me bhi chup-chap na khade rahe. Ladkiyo ko apne me hi rhene wale ladke bilkul pasand nahi ate. Fir jab aap aisa feel kare ki aap bahut kuch bol chuke hai, or cheezon ne ab ek ajib mood lena shuru kar diya hai to koi casual or real reason dhundhe good-bye bolne ka. Agar aap ye sab kuch apne kisi kaam ya apni class ke ke bich me kar rahe ho to use bolo ki ab aapko ab thoda kaam hai karne ko to baad me baat karte hai. Or agar aap kahi bahar ho to use bole ki ab aapko jana hoga, kyunki koi aapka intezaar kar rha hai. Fir jane se pahle use see you later bole. Ye use is baat ka hint dega, ki aap usse dubara milna or baat karna chahte hai. Fir wha se jitni jaldi ho sake nikal jaye, ye us ladki ko aise show karega jaise ki aapko such me bahut jarur kaam hai.

To friends, ye the kuch ache or lajawab tips ki ladki ko pahli baar milne jaye to kya karna chaiye.Umeed hai aapko jarur pasand aye honge. Agar aapke paas kuch or tarike hai toh hamare or hamare friends ke sath zaroor share karein aur uske liye kya karna wo toh aapko pata hi hai, Bas comments box me message drop karna hai. So friends ab derr kis baat ki hai in tips ko ache padh kar implement kare, or shuru ho jaiye. Best Of Luck.


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